Adoption / Fostering

Watching the news there's a lot on about fostering and shortages and the amount of children in care. This morning Iv seen something im torn about, that government will tear away some of the red tape and make adoption easier. It's good to think that more children will get family's but if they stop being as picky are children goin to be put into safe homes are they going to be put at risk?...




And just wanna wish a merry Christmas to everyone xxxxx

Blogging on my phone!

Woo got an app for that! Can blog all time now :)

Defending gay marriage!

Found this really interesting and hes an inspiration, im sure his mothers are proud!

Racism infront of you...

I really felt quite angry this morning... enough to ring my dad and tell him how discusted i am to related to a particular family member of ours and he completly agreed and said hes had several rows with this person.

This morning i had a very headed conversation on the internet with my family member who is going to be moving over, i seen alot of things on his fb i dont agree with so as he told me this i think he may of been expecting a nice reply of something along the lines of ...im so happy to hear that cant wait to see you. Instead from me he got 'england doesnt want you if your going to bring them edl views with you'.
He got a bit denfensive when i told him i felt he was racist and posted things i dont agree with and went on a rant of i have mexican freinds and muslim freinds...etc
and gave the usual babble about how this country is, i told him you dont study anything you dont learn about how many people are here and we only let a small amount of people from other countrys in compared to some others and he hasnt got a clue how it is over here.
He to my digust replied with 'the only different there to here is we have mexicans and you have filthy muslims'
...i said straight away that comment straight away proved my point and ur have no repect for your own freinds you have said are muslims.


And that was my rant over!

Abit of tv watching...with some learning

So i watched these couple weeks ago but only just blogging, did mention it to couple of people i found it just on one night and watched so couldnt pre warn people it was on!
So one was pregnant and bi-polar and the other was pregnant with eating disorder, so managed to find them on internet for people :)
From what i seen theres a whole series of them with more like pregnant and in prison...etc there on site to!

http://health.discovery.com/videos/im-pregnant-and-lifts-im-pregnant-andbipolar-options.html
http://health.discovery.com/videos/pregnancy-pregnant-with-eating-disorder.html

This is a clip with previews of others ones they have

Lancan

\Writing a blog with a kitten on a laptop lol :D

Lacan
"For Lacan, it is only when the child accedes to castration and the Law of the father, that s/he becomes fully competent as a language-speaker within his/her given social collective."

http://www.iep.utm.edu/lacweb/#H3

Had a read from this about how there are set rules to learning lauguage, refered to as 'laws'

Gender Dysphoria

Childhood and Gender, iv been looking at an article about a little boy who from the age of 8 was living as a little girl at home, and at 9 started school as a school.
Born In The Wrong Body - Accessed 3.11.11

Along with this article is a clip of the mother speaking and talking about how they tried to keep there child as a boy and took away the choice of female stuff//toys. And how she heard there child upset and ashamed when the child couldnt control what was happening and when they gave into girls toys she was a much happier child. As a child of 8 new what was happening was different and not 'normal'.

As a female the changes mentioned are shes bouncy and smiles, a much happier life as the person she wants.
When listening to the child...now 16, she even sounds female has a life, the freinds and a bf and is comfortable as the person they are.

Parents chose to let the child make there own choice and unlike an article i previously blogged Gender Neutrality on the boy who had mistake in surgary, the choice was made by the parents and eventually returned to his biologal gender as he was unhappy. Gender being changed from looking at these needs to be something in the child that they feel needs to be done, not just done for convience.

Gender, some articles on girls and boys being compared.

Girls Believe they are better than boys from aged 4

Gender Bias increases poverty 

Male teachers does not help boys